For about 4 months I’ve come to better understand myself and my gender as non binary, began using they/them pronouns and wearing a binder, cutting my hair differently. I’m seeing a guy who I’m out to but he says he always thought he was straight and that he doesn’t want to erase my identity but also doesn’t know what it makes his sexuality & I am scared of being seen as a cis woman and also not being attractive to him if I begin to present more masculine